Four Rules for Sticking With It, From Someone Who Couldn't: Hinata Kato on Motivation and Consistency

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Overview

In this video, Hinata Kato answers a cluster of questions that followers sent in on Instagram: "How are you able to continue doing things for so long?", "How do you keep yourself motivated?", "Why are you able to work so hard?" Hina says they used to be someone who couldn't stick with anything. They went through a period of feeling depressed and like a failure because of it. Their position now is that this belief was mistaken, and that anyone can stay motivated and reach their goals. They offer the methods that worked for them, with a caveat. People differ, "just like skin, hair and bone structure," so these methods may not suit everyone. Hina hopes the video at least gives viewers a starting point for finding their own approach.

11 min read

The recording itself was improvised. Hina normally avoids filming in the evening but shot this at 5 p.m., an hour before going out. At one point they re-recorded part of it in a hurry, and partway through they changed the camera angle as it got dark.

1:20

Why choose effort at all

Before the methods, Hina repeats an answer they once gave to "Why do you work so hard?" Keeping at things no longer feels hard to them, but it used to. Their reasoning is that both options are painful. Doing nothing every day is difficult, and so is working hard every day. If you keep not trying, your self-esteem drops and you grow bored with a self that never changes. Since both paths are tough, Hina chose the one that offers the excitement of a new challenge and the happiness of achieving something.

Hina then reframes "achieving goals," which they call too formal a phrase, in terms of what viewers probably want: to lose weight and be cute, be popular, wear cute clothes, and learn to take care of themselves. They promise that viewers will keep going until those dreams come true. They originally announced three methods and said the second and third had changed them most. Two more points were added later in the video.

3:03

Method 1: Surround yourself with people who are doing well

The first method sounds simple, but Hina considers it very important: fill your surroundings with hard-working people. That includes real-life friends and the accounts you follow. For the period you've committed to, Hina suggests making a separate social media account used only for looking at such people. Their examples include Jennie from BLACKPINK, Wonyoung, Sashihara, and Minami Tanaka. If you check those accounts when you wake up, you'll think things like "If she's working hard since morning, I'll try my best too."

Hina gives an example from that same day. They had serious muscle pain and planned to rest. They stress that rest matters because muscles grow while resting, and say they felt comfortable taking the day off because their self-esteem and self-efficacy are fairly high. Then they opened Instagram and saw that Aya Nakamachi had been cooking Japanese food since 7 a.m. Nakamachi had just returned to Japan from abroad, remarked that Japanese food is the best after all, and looked like she was enjoying life. Seeing that made Hina want to do their best too.

The same effect comes from friends. Hina mentions Umi Shinonome, a friend of about the same age who has a lot of work every day yet still cooks for herself at home to stay healthy. Seeing friends like her makes Hina want to work hard. Hina also notes that viewers probably already save and like posts like this so they can return to them quickly.

4:56

Method 2: Put yourself in a good mood

The second method is to "put yourself in a good mood," which Hina calls very important but very difficult. They say they can now cheer themselves up just before their motivation starts to fade, and as long as they keep doing that, the motivation holds.

To work out what lifts your mood, Hina suggests first writing a list of your dreams, from which the answer should follow. Their own reasoning goes like this. They believe hard work is what changed them into who they are now, and they love discovering new sides of themselves. But hard work takes time to show results. So to stay motivated in the meantime, they do things that pay off immediately. Examples include getting an eyelash perm, changing hair color and style, having a makeup artist do their makeup, trying Korean makeup, and booking a photo studio for cute passport photos. They also copy the fashion of Felix from Stray Kids or of Wonyoung, or make big changes to their own style, doing whatever makes them feel cool that day.

Hina says this raises their motivation dramatically. As a result, the next day they can do what they had been doing best, which is waking up at 5 a.m. and walking to work. Their conclusion is that everyone has to cheer themselves up, but the way to do it differs from person to person, so each viewer should find their own. They add that the method is simple and effective but often overlooked.

6:56

Method 3: Do what you can, when you can

Hina describes the third method as involving psychology and as one that "will completely change your life": do what you can when you can. Like the first method, it sounds easy and anyone can do it, but Hina also calls it very difficult.

In their own routine, they normally walk on a treadmill at incline 11 and speed 3.5. On low-motivation days they scale down. They might take a flat walk outside and enjoy the scenery, or cut the usual 30 minutes to 5. Sometimes they skip exercise entirely and lie in bed searching for and saving makeup and fashion ideas.

Hina connects this to an explanation they found convincing. Most people have had days when they know what needs doing and still spend the whole day on TikTok, then go to bed with nothing done. Hina says there is a part of the brain called the nucleus accumbens, and that stimulating it produces motivation. In their account, the way to stimulate it is to engage at least a little with the task you have to do, no matter how unmotivated you feel. If a report feels too tedious to start, flip through a reference book while lying in bed. For work, just look at the materials for a minute or two. Hina says it's fine to be lenient with yourself, but even slight engagement acts as an important switch that leads to action.

Hina says this method changed them a lot, and repeats that methods two and three made the biggest difference. Doing them consistently, they explain, helps you keep promises to yourself. That raises self-efficacy, which they define as the belief that you can achieve something. In their view it also raises self-esteem and confidence. People who become confident take better care of themselves, and people who value themselves can value others more, cut ties with those who don't value them, and make their own choices. Hina credits these three steps with giving them confidence and keeping them going ever since.

10:10

An added point: keep goals small

Hina then remembers another point. Big goals matter, but don't set them too high. They have big goals of their own, such as definitely getting a beautiful body and succeeding in a certain kind of work. Still, they focus first on small ones. Every morning they decide the day's tasks and include everything, however minor: brushing teeth three times a day, taking vitamin C, massaging certain areas while bathing. They keep these on a list and check them off, and say that doing so raises their self-efficacy.

Later in the video they add an example. They are studying English and read just one page of a reference book per day instead of trying to cover and memorize a lot at once. It takes 75 days to get through the book, but by the end they will have worked through the whole textbook. For Hina, this is why small goals matter.

10:59

Method 4: Stop doing things just to lose weight

After a break to look for opinions from viewers (whom they call MABUPINAs), Hina introduces a fourth method they are especially glad they adopted: they stopped doing things only to lose weight.

They admit they do cardio because they want to lose weight, but call that the wrong mindset. Waking up and thinking "I have to walk to lose fat" is something they genuinely hate. They say they can now study cooking, exercise, fashion, makeup, and hairstyling all at once because they recast each activity around a reason they find fun. Their daily morning walk, which they call "PEKO PEKO WALKING," is mainly for maintaining body shape and health. But they now frame it as a chance to set a task, let go of worries, and enjoy favorite books and videos. "I wanted to read the rest of this book, so I decided to go for a walk."

Cooking worked the same way. When Hina felt they had to make diet recipes to lose weight, they couldn't do it. They switched to reasons they found enjoyable, such as wanting to be praised by someone they liked, and now cook for themselves every day. They describe their current motivation as not wanting to age and wanting beautiful skin. The results they report are becoming a much better cook, losing weight, a positive effect on gut health, noticeably longer eyelashes, and much better skin. Hina says this mindset has helped them accomplish everything, and recommends all four methods.

13:29

What viewers said

Hina then reads comments from viewers about how they stay motivated. Many mentioned choosing a role model, and some named Hina, which made them happy. Hina agrees that setting a goal like "I want to be like this person" is important. Others said "just get results." Hina relates this to their second method but notes that real results usually take a lot of effort, which is why working on something with immediate results helps.

Hina also encourages viewers to look at their Instagram, where they post about diet, exercise, before-and-after transformations, mindset, and beauty. They say there is no one who wouldn't be happy to meet them, and ask viewers not to take this as self-consciousness. They want to share information with that level of confidence, think it would be bad to appear insecure, and aim to make people happy and provide accurate information.

Other suggestions included using ChatGPT, specifically working on things while being praised by it. Hina thinks this is a good method because it analyzes you while boosting your self-esteem. Some viewers echoed "don't set goals too high," and Hina says they found a comrade. One viewer signed up for Pilates classes to work on body shape, and Hina adds that taking a class someone you admire attends is also a good idea. Another viewer planned to wear a swimsuit on a trip to Ishigaki Island in 100 days, which Hina considers a good target. Hina's overall impression is that everyone seems to be doing it in similar ways.

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Closing: "Nothing beats a shining person"

Hina's final emphasis is that "nothing beats a shining person." Regardless of body type or appearance, they say, what matters most is truly enjoying things and continuing to smile. They invite viewers to share other ideas in the comments.

Before heading out for pizza, Hina shows muffins they made with rice flour. They were inspired by a muffin they had at a Starbucks in Shanghai and wanted a similar healthy version at home. They call this batch a failure because it had too much water, though it still tasted good, and say they will share the recipe if they can make it fluffier.