Michelle Khare's 90 Days From White Belt to a Black Belt Test in Taekwondo

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Overview

According to the video, the average student takes three to five years to earn a black belt in Taekwondo. Michelle Khare wanted to find out whether the right student, working with the right master, could go from white belt to a black belt test in 90 days. She says nobody has done it that fast. The video follows her through about a dozen belt tests, one outright failure, sparring sessions against an Olympic champion and world champions, and a final test judged by a panel of martial arts veterans. Along the way her idea of what the challenge was for changed considerably.

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2:25

Finding a Master Who Doesn't Give Belts Away

Khare's coach is Master Simon Rhee. She describes him as an 80s action hero who starred with his brother Phillip in the Best of the Best martial arts films and who appeared on the cover of Black Belt magazine. Rhee is clear from the start that he isn't a soft grader. He says he has flunked his own sons and his assistant instructors, and that he does not give out his belts. He admits he laughed when Khare first called, because no one had earned a black belt in so short a time. Her earlier boxing video, in which she broke her nose and still won the fight, persuaded him to take her on.

In the first session Rhee tested three things. He wanted to see how well she listened, how strong she was through push-ups and sit-ups, and how coordinated she was. He also set out a distinction that runs through the rest of the film. Boxing taught her effectiveness and power. Taekwondo also requires that a punch look right. Rhee talks about the "lines" of the human body: a straight wrist on a punch is beautiful, and a bent one "breaks that beauty line." He says martial art means military art, but like yin and yang, Khare would have to look strong and effortless at the same time.

He also worked on her kihap, the shout that goes with a strike. Rhee told her it was "cute" and that he didn't want cute. He wanted it strong because it carries internal power, and he had her get angry and try to scare him with her yell. At the end of the session he told her she would have to perform everything by Friday. When she asked how long most students stay at white belt before testing for yellow, the answer was three months. She had four days.

8:06

Operation Black Belt: A Test Almost Every Week

Rhee's school has 13 belts, each earned through its own test. White represents a blank slate and black represents expertise. To reach a black belt test by day 90, Khare would need to test almost every week. The schedule changed almost at once. Rhee proposed a double test the following Friday: white to yellow first, and if she passed, yellow to purple straight after. The plan set the yellow and purple tests for day 10 and the orange and blue tests for day 20. The black belt test, if she got that far, would include sparring three black belts at once and breaking a brick with her bare hand.

Peter Iacangelo, a fourth-degree black belt who has studied with Master Rhee for 41 years, became another of her teachers. His first reaction was uncertain: "I don't know if this could be done. I don't know if it should be done." Khare stresses that nobody involved knew whether it was possible. She trained six days a week on kicks, punches, self-defense techniques, and some Korean.

She was most excited about forms, the choreographed sequences seen in martial arts films and competitions. She explains that forms historically preserved techniques across generations and also teach focus, precision, and discipline. Most forms run 20 to 30 steps, and each step is based on a fighting technique, as if fighting an imaginary opponent with perfect rhythm. The form for her purple belt test, Basic Form Number One, had 20 steps. Iacangelo corrected her habit of stepping and blocking at the same time, which he said kills the "snap." In his words, snap is what makes the form look good. He also explained the scoring: each mistake costs half a point, losing one point is still a passing grade, but he wanted her to pass without any mistakes.

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The First Double Test

Rhee makes testing intimidating on purpose. Students walk in to find a panel of black belts with clipboards, and he says the point is for them to overcome their fear of testing. Khare's white-to-yellow test covered horse-stance punches, blocks, front-leg roundhouse and side kicks, and a recitation of the student creed. She made no mistakes and earned her yellow belt.

Before the purple test, Rhee's brother Phillip arrived to watch. Phillip asked why she wanted to do this. Khare said she believed she had a lot to learn from martial arts, that she was curious about the dedication it requires, and that she was excited to find out what she didn't yet know. Master Rhee called it a challenge for himself as well: "if she looks good I look good, she doesn't look good I don't look good."

She lost half a point on her reverse punch and another half point for giving a walking stance when a front stance was called. Rhee said that meant she hadn't listened correctly. Her total of minus one was a passing grade, so she earned her purple belt, but Rhee told her he wanted a perfect score next time. His main note was that she had good energy but needed to be effortless, because higher ranks require it. The Rhee brothers' verdict was that she had done well for so short a time and had good focus.

17:56

Breaking a Board, and Doubts From Outside

Khare looked forward to her first board break as a milestone. She explains that breaking shows the power and effectiveness of a strike, much like a cutting demonstration shows the sharpness of a blade, and that it has come to stand for overcoming physical and mental barriers. The blue belt test required breaking a board with her fist. She noted that the real boards were much thicker than "what you see on Instagram."

Training started on reusable plastic boards, which her instructor called training wheels. The technique was a back stance, then pivoting the hip and shoulders and driving through the board rather than stopping at it. Her first attempt missed because she was leaning too far forward. After being told to aim in a straight line toward the ground, she broke the plastic board. Her hand was sore, but she chose to try a real board too, since it might be her only chance before the test. She broke it.

Doubters showed up online. When she posted about the challenge, some black belts commented that a black belt takes ten years at their school and called it impossible. Before her orange belt test she asked the instructors whether it was okay to wear a purple belt while moving at this pace, and whether she would look like a black belt to someone watching. The instructors said her kicking and punching matched the level she was at. They also said they were testing how good they were as teachers, and that they wouldn't have taken on the challenge if they hadn't thought she was the exception to the rule. Whether she would look like a blue belt in a couple of days, they said, they didn't know.

She took the orange and blue tests back to back. The blue test brought new kicks (the instructors still saw some hesitation in her back kicks), a new form in a different style, and the condition that failing the board break meant repeating the whole test. She broke it and earned her blue belt. Training for the next test began right away. The blue stripe test, her first advanced test, required breaking a board with a sliding side kick, and she passed. Someone watching remarked that with four weeks of experience she was better than they had been at four weeks. Master Rhee said that when he had posted about his hardest-working new student, someone replied, "90 days black belt, come on." He admitted his own first reaction had been the same, before he knew what kind of person she was.

23:42

Failing the Green Belt Test

The green belt test was where the plan broke down. Khare said the volume of material made her brain feel like it was exploding, as if she were cramming for a science test. Rhee replied that this was only green belt and to wait until red, and then black. She also had to keep every earlier form memorized, because the black belt test would call on all of them. Her period started unexpectedly during warm-ups and ruined her dobok. Rhee told her "it's life," and she joked that this was the blood, sweat, and tears he had promised.

During the test itself she confused which forms were being called, used the wrong leg, and kept making errors. Rhee noted she had already reached the three mistakes that would fail a test, and she ended at minus five. He stopped the test before sparring and breaking because she had already failed, and told her to study.

Rhee says he has taught many students who blame their failure on something or someone else. Khare didn't, and that was when he knew she wasn't taking the challenge lightly. Her own assessment was that the worst part of failing was wasting everyone's time. She had been taught the material and hadn't done everything she could to memorize and own it. Her response was to put in serious hours outside the gym. She committed to arriving 30 minutes early to every lesson and practicing forms in the parking lot, and she compared it to studying for the AP Calculus exam. She set a phone alarm to go off 15 times a day at random times, and each time it went off she ran a practice test of all her material. She also booked the venue for the final black belt test, the Korean Friendship Bell, so that whatever level she had reached on day 90, she would test there.

28:03

Sparring an Olympic Gold Medalist

Khare saw sparring as her weakest area and an important part of the green belt test. She found out quickly that boxing habits don't transfer neatly. A jab scores in boxing but not in Taekwondo; a backfist to the face does. To improve, she invited Anastasija Zolotic, the Tokyo Olympic gold medalist and the first American woman to win Olympic gold in Taekwondo, who she notes is about a foot taller than her.

The session was humbling. Zolotic scored point after point. Khare said she had expected her boxing experience to be a big asset, but Taekwondo sparring feels completely different once the entire lower body becomes a weapon. She kept falling back on her hands and getting kicked in the head. Zolotic told her she was fighting her opponent's fight, waiting for the other person to move and staying very defensive. She taught her what she called a "cancel," a defensive version of a hook kick that brushes an incoming kick aside "like it means absolutely nothing." Zolotic said she uses it 95% of the time when she's being attacked and called it a lifesaver for defensive fighters.

Zolotic described Taekwondo as a form of expression. In her view, understanding details like this is what separates someone who wants a black belt from someone trying to learn the sport. She said her first reaction to the 90-day plan had been to wonder how it could be done, but hearing about the hours Khare was putting in and her effort to understand the sport rather than just make a YouTube video earned her respect.

The session also helped Khare with something personal. She said that although her boxing episode ended on a high note, she needed four months to recover from the broken nose and had black eyes for six weeks. She struggled with that and found herself questioning the consequences of taking on these challenges. Sparring with Zolotic let her face that fear again. Zolotic said Taekwondo was her therapy and that she had turned her hurt and pain into motivation.

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Yin, Yang, and Passing on the Retest

Khare connects this period to yin and yang, a concept Master Rhee had explained: the moon is yin and the sun is yang, night is yin and day is yang, and a martial artist tries to balance the two. Khare describes yang as the rigid, disciplined approach and yin as flow, softness, and expression. She had expected an Olympic champion to be all yang, and was surprised to find Zolotic's approach leaned toward yin.

She concluded that her own approach had been pure yang, muscling through everything. It worked for the first few belts, but the green belt failure showed her it wasn't enough. For her, yin happened outside the gym: sitting in a silent room reviewing notes instead of watching Netflix, closing her eyes for 30 minutes to picture each technique done correctly, and walking through her forms at half speed until every movement was "in my bones." She says yin also means knowing the material well enough that it flows without effort.

She passed the green belt retest without freezing on anything. Rhee told her she had earned it. He warned that the next test would contain less new material but more advanced material, and would test her cardio hard. One of the instructors told her they had failed their own black belt test once, felt they had let everyone down, and came back determined to make no mistakes. They said failing makes you a better martial artist, because if you win all the time you never learn.

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Why a Black Belt Matters to Her

One of her instructors asked how much of this was about a trophy, noting that people do martial arts for many reasons and all of them are valid. Khare answered that if she didn't deserve the black belt, she would rather wear a white belt the whole time and simply have the chance to train with Master Rhee.

She also revealed a motivation she hadn't yet told Rhee. A few years earlier, a father had emailed her. He had planned to enroll his daughter in dance, but she wanted a martial art, and after watching Khare's channel he felt inspired to put her in martial arts. Khare says martial arts can give people a feeling of being a hero, a sense of confidence and spirit that many never get to experience. She then passed the green stripe and green double stripe tests. Rhee called the stripe a "simple piece of tape" with a lot of meaning behind it.

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Group Classes

Rhee next suggested she join his group classes. She was nervous. Before this challenge she had tried a few martial arts classes on her own and stopped because she found them intimidating. Here she met students with many years of training, one of them in their 12th year, and was inspired watching black belts perform forms in unison, breathing and hitting each mark together. Rhee explained that many forms are meant for group performance and should move the people watching, which is why he emphasizes them. Her new difficulty was keeping her timing in sync with others, and mistakes cost five push-ups.

Khare says she usually tackles challenges alone, and the class made her feel part of something larger, working with students who had the same struggles. She met two red belts, Alexya Garcia and Darielle Williams, and also watched a white belt learning the basics. She described it as seeing the ghosts of Taekwondo past, present, and future. When she learned they were testing for red single stripe soon, she set a new goal of passing her red belt test in time to join them. She said she feels better testing with other people around, because she isn't suffering and scared alone.

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The Red Belt Test and the Question of Ownership

Red belt marks the start of advanced material, and Rhee brought in a heavyweight panel: Fariborz Azhakh, founder of Team Karate Centers, and Benny Urquidez, "Benny the Jet," an undefeated kickboxer known for his fight with Jackie Chan on film. Khare lost half a point on a back kick that was still crooked after Rhee had asked her to fix it. For this test she had to design her own self-defense sequence, judged on practicality and performance. She walked through it: knife-hand blocks against two hooks, an under punch, a knee as the attacker grabs her neck, a monkey roll to the ground, punches, and an arm bar to finish.

She then sparred Garcia and Williams two-on-one. Urquidez wanted more than memorized technique. He said memorizing a technique, knowing it, and owning it are three different things, and he wanted to see ownership under pressure. He had people come at her unexpectedly from the front and behind, grabbing her, until he said stop. He told her he was there to see her hunger and how much she wanted it, and that a black belt "is not a given right, it's an earned right."

Afterward Urquidez praised her courage and said, "we're human beings, we're not human doings." His wish was for her not just to get a black belt but to be one. One of the red belts said martial arts is very spiritual and that you learn about yourself through each belt and each mental hiccup. She hoped Khare would grow spiritually in the art. Khare scored minus one and passed. Even so, she said that although red feels only a few steps from black, she had a lot of work left inside red belt and wanted to fight for every step.

49:14

The Brick, and a Question About What She Missed

About a month before the scheduled black belt test, she started training for the brick break: an ordinary three-inch red brick from a hardware store. Small mistakes in the strike can break the hand, so she conditioned her hand with 50 strikes in a row to the same spot on training boards. Iacangelo said he had to break three bricks for his third degree and four for his fourth degree about a year and a half earlier, and that it takes a strong will to overcome the fear. Khare reasoned that since force equals mass times acceleration and she is, in her words, a relatively tiny woman with little mass, speed would have to make up the difference. Iacangelo noticed that she stopped partway through the strike instead of putting her whole body weight behind it. With about three weeks left, she was learning black belt material ahead of time while also preparing for the red double stripe test, including nine advanced forms. Rhee said her forms had real art to them, because people feel it when they watch.

At the red stripe test, Cindy Rhee asked a pointed question. It had taken Cindy eight years to earn a first-degree black belt. Cindy respected Khare's journey but wondered whether the short timeline meant she would miss something. Khare answered that the group classes and the community there had been especially meaningful, and she was trying to embrace every moment, but she didn't think anything could make up for eight years of Saturday classes and the bonds formed there. Cindy said everyone is on their own journey and hoped she would fall in love with martial arts and keep going. Khare passed that test with no mistakes.

On day 83 she took the red double stripe test, which included sparring Thekla Hutyrova, a world champion martial artist. Failing it would have meant retaking it on day 90 instead of testing for black belt. She scored minus one and passed. The instructors then laid out the black belt test: advanced techniques, five punching defenses, two kick defenses, bear hug defenses, knife defenses, combinations from every level, a freestyle black belt combination across the mat, a three-station board break, and the brick. They expected it to take about an hour. In one session she trained for two and a half hours without covering everything.

Before the test, Rhee told her he had felt her nervousness. He said that when she first proposed testing in three months, he almost told her to find someone else, but now they were here. Of everyone he has taught over 45 to 50 years, he said, she was one of the most dedicated. His warning was not to get negative or scared, "because if you do you already lost a battle."

58:31

Day 90: The Black Belt Test

The test at the Korean Friendship Bell covered advanced techniques one through eight, punching and bear hug defenses, multi-opponent sparring, three-station board breaking, and her forms. She also read an essay on the meaning of a first-degree black belt.

In the essay she returned to the father's email. It surprised her at first because she wasn't a martial artist and hadn't felt comfortable trying it herself, even though she had always seen Taekwondo as a superpower out of her reach. She wrote that she approached this challenge the way she approaches all of them: fully committing, setting deadlines, and muscling through. That energy carried her through the first few belts, but her desire to earn belts began to get in the way. She listed the feedback: Phillip Rhee said she needed to be effortless, Benny Urquidez said her movements were too robotic and memorized, Peter Iacangelo urged her to find the expression in the art form, and Master Rhee kept reminding her she was performing an art.

She tied this to the Korean flag her class bows to, whose center symbol, um-yang, is known in Chinese as yin and yang and stands, in Taekwondo, for the balance between aggression and peace. She called yang her lifelong superpower: running into the burning building, bracing for the pepper spray, breaking her nose in front of 15,000 people. Cindy's question had made her see what she had given up by speed-running: the flow, the peace, the joy, the chance to express herself, to help teach other students, and to laugh with them. In her words, she had been "missing the art in martial arts." She ended with news from the father the week before: his daughter had earned her black belt that July at age 10. Khare wrote that whether she earned her own black belt that day or years later, she stood there on day 90 excited to truly begin.

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The Brick and the Panel's Decision

The brick came last, and Khare said she was most nervous about it because she had never broken one in practice. One of the black belts, Cindy, had just broken two bricks. She had three tries, and if she didn't break it she wouldn't pass. Her instructors told her to get angry and put her whole body weight behind it. Rhee mentioned that many of his students break their hands doing this. The brick did not break.

The black belts then held an open meeting. Fariborz Azhakh argued against failing her for the one thing she hadn't done when she had done everything else, said he couldn't have done what she did, and said that to him she earned her black belt that day. Another panelist pointed out that in their school you fail if you quit, and she never quit. Others agreed they wouldn't penalize her for the brick. Cindy suggested a provisional black belt, which the school gives when someone hasn't broken. Peter Iacangelo disagreed. He said she wasn't physically ready for the brick because there hadn't been enough time to prepare her, and that she, and all of them, would feel better if she came back in a couple of weeks and broke it. James said that in her heart she is a black belt, but agreed they should hold to what is required.

Rhee gave the decision. All her testing material was excellent and she made no mistakes, but every black belt sitting there had broken their brick, and giving her the belt now wouldn't be fair to them. Her breaking technique wasn't quite right, so he would teach it better, and she would try again in a couple of weeks once her hands had fully healed.

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Day 112 and Beyond

Khare reflects that she started the challenge focused on the belts themselves and missed their deeper meaning. Master Rhee helped her see that excellence isn't defined by the belt around your waist but by commitment to growth, learning, and perseverance. Cameron, the girl whose father wrote to her and now a black belt, reminded her that the core of the journey is the inner desire to keep going. If Cameron could keep pushing for her black belt, Khare says, so can she.

The video ends with the result still open. She did not earn her black belt on day 90 or on day 112, and she says she might still not have it by day 200, but that this is okay because you can always keep trying.