Audrey Hussey Answers Viewer Questions on Jealousy, Insecurity, Trust, and Marriage
Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey brought his wife Audrey back to answer viewer questions after the audience asked to see more of her. Earlier commenters had said they valued "a female's perspective on the dating scene" and asked for a series. Audrey takes most of the questions and Matthew adds his own views on some. The topics range from a partner's sexual past and hair loss to fear of dishonesty, feeling "behind" in dating, keeping a marriage healthy, and getting back into dating after a long time alone. Her answers keep coming back to one idea: build confidence and stability inside yourself instead of trying to control what you can't know or change.
A Partner's Sexual Past
The first question comes from a viewer named "All the Umbrellas in London." Her partner had slept with many people before meeting her, all one-time hookups. She has slept with only one person. Because of this difference, she worries that their intimacy isn't special to him, since he has "already shared his body with so many others." He tells her not to worry and says their relationship is special because she is the first woman he has committed to. The thought still comes back and makes her sad. She asks whether this is a bad reason to end a relationship that is otherwise going well.
Audrey's direct answer is no. She doesn't think a partner's sexual history is a good enough reason to break up, and she doesn't believe having a sexual past makes someone untrustworthy. She points out that "to varying degrees, we all have a sexual past," even if some people have had more partners than others. What matters more to her is whether the two people are aligned now: how each of them values intimacy, connection, and monogamy today, rather than what either did before.
She then flags part of the question as "a little bit of a red flag." The viewer didn't describe past relationships. She described only one-time hookups. The transcript then includes a line agreeing that the partner "is allowed to change" and that everyone may shift their values. It is unclear whether Audrey or Matthew says it. The answer ends with the view that a history made up entirely of one-time encounters can suggest someone who "isn't able or willing to have any real intimacy with someone." So the past alone isn't disqualifying, but the pattern is worth noticing alongside how he is behaving now.
Hair Loss and Confidence
Gayatri, a member of Matthew's Love Life community, says she relates to Audrey's earlier comments about hair loss. She has dealt with it since puberty and still does as she starts her 30s. She asks how Audrey kept it from defining her and stayed confident that she was worthy.
Audrey says her hair was falling out in her 20s and she tried many things to stop it. She gives the practical answer first, because she says that's what she would want if she were asking. She stresses that these are things that helped her personally and that viewers should do their own research and talk to a healthcare professional. Her list:
- A full blood panel, to check for deficiencies such as iron or vitamin D that could be causing the loss.
- Minoxidil from a dermatologist, topical or oral, which she says "really, really helps with hair shed."
- PRP, scalp massage, and microneedling, which she describes as stimulating growth.
- Rosemary oil masks.
- A high-protein, balanced diet.
- Supplements. She names Nutrafol as one she considers good and says dermatologists recommend it.
She says she "threw everything in the kitchen sink at it" because that's her personality. For others, she suggests picking based on budget, time, and appetite for the problem, trying things one at a time, and not getting overwhelmed.
Matthew asks what she would say to people who have tried everything without success and whose hair bothers them every time they look in the mirror, affecting their confidence in dating. Audrey says she understands the feeling from experience and offers what she calls a "pressure valve": "Your hair is a feature and no one marries a feature. We marry a person." People choose a partner as a complete package of flaws, qualities, and physical traits, not because of one feature. She thinks the goal is to be "the most compelling complete package" possible. That comes from developing your best qualities, not from fixating on the one you dislike. Then, if a partner meets you and finds something they wouldn't have picked, whether hair, weight, or a personality trait, they decide they "cannot possibly walk away" because the whole person is too good to pass up.
When You Can't Tell If Someone Is Honest
Teresa Sinclair writes that she has been hurt too many times and dating gives her anxiety. "No one stays true to who they say they are." She asks how to tell whether someone will be honest and consistent.
Audrey says plainly that you can't know. You can never be sure whether someone is who they claim to be. She adds that "half of the time we don't even know what we want." Someone can mean it when they say "I really like you" and still change their mind six months later and break another person's heart. She doesn't think that uncertainty is a reason to shut love out.
Instead she describes what a person can control. Trust yourself to make the best decision you can. Choose people you believe share your values about relationships, honesty, and commitment. Take your time so you don't overinvest and end up heartbroken after three weeks. Most important, build enough strength inside yourself to know you'll be okay if someone changes their mind, lets you down, or turns out to be unkind. In her words, we can't put our faith in the idea that someone will never hurt us. We can only put our faith in the fact that we will be okay if they do. She sees that as what makes it possible to take risks and put yourself back out there.
Matthew builds on this with a qualification. He says that knowing you're strong enough to walk away doesn't necessarily fix the underlying cynicism that "everyone just winds up being bad." It can even feed that cynicism, because when things go wrong we tell ourselves they all end up the same. He separates strategies for protecting yourself from strategies for healing your view of people, and says the second also needs attention.
He gives a personal example. He recently felt taken advantage of in a situation, and it brought back past experiences of being deeply taken advantage of by certain people. His mind connected the two and wanted to settle on the belief that everyone eventually takes advantage. Audrey told him it was fine to be upset, but that this person was very different from the people in his past and had different intentions. He calls the idea that follows empowering: if we take on a role of leadership in our interactions, we can influence the people we're with and bring out their most generous, optimistic, and respectful sides. "Beyond trauma is leadership," he says, and leadership doesn't just watch for the right outcome with people, it creates it. (He follows this with a promotion for his in-person retreat, which isn't covered here.)
A Staged Question
One question, from "anonymous," asks Audrey to rank the five things she loves most about Matthew, with as much detail as possible. Audrey is puzzled that she hadn't seen it in the thread. Matthew then admits he wrote it because he wanted to hear that she loves him. She offers to name one thing, he asks again for "as much detail as possible," and the segment ends there without an answer.
Feeling Like a Late Bloomer
"Cupcake Queen" asks about a friend in her 20s who hasn't had her first kiss and feels "pathetic" about it. The friend has always wanted love and knows what kind of man she wants, but hasn't had luck with dating, likely because of a very sheltered upbringing. How can she stop feeling behind and be less afraid to put herself out there?
Audrey starts with grace and self-compassion. A sheltered life and limited exposure to these experiences aren't the friend's fault, and those circumstances explain why she hasn't been kissed by her mid-20s.
Her second point is about privacy. "You're not walking around branded never been kissed." People only know if she tells them. Audrey argues that people are no more entitled to know your "sexual non-history" than your sexual history. She extends this to medication, past experiences, and things you haven't done. All of it is as personal as you want it to be. She adds that the fact stops being true the moment the first kiss happens, and that it's only as big a deal as the friend makes it in her own head. Her suggestion is to make peace with it internally, to see it as "so far in my life I've not had this experience" while being excited to kiss someone and be intimate, and then to go make those things happen on her own terms and at a pace she's comfortable with.
What Keeps Their Marriage Working
Marlene Boise asks what the couple consistently does to make their marriage last, and what each has chosen to accept about the other instead of trying to change.
Matthew answers the first part. When one of them says a need isn't being met or something is affecting them, they don't "skate past it." He compares it to an alarm they don't snooze. His example: Audrey recently said that although they spend plenty of time together, she was craving real dates and nights out. He took it seriously. He notes that when someone says something out loud, it usually isn't the first time they've thought it, so saying it means "the alarm just got a little louder." He searched for French things to do in Los Angeles, because Audrey is French and connecting with her culture matters to her. He found a Bastille Day celebration downtown, and they went and had crepes. He says Audrey does the same for him: if he raises something, he can "set my watch" to her acting on it within days or a week. Audrey agrees.
For the second part, Audrey says that because of things Matthew has been through, he likes to hold on tightly and control situations. He double-checks whether she has booked or done things, or steps in to organize something she was handling. She accepts this rather than fighting it because she knows it makes him feel safe.
Finding Eligible Singles and Shaking Off the Rust
The last question, from Abar, asks where to find eligible singles who actually want to date, and how to get back into it after being single for a long time.
On the first part, Audrey says there's no specific place where eligible people gather, though there are many ways to meet more of them. She points to the free Dating With Results training, which she says over a million people have watched.
On the second part, she assumes the viewer wants practical steps, like whether to download an app or start talking to people. She suggests a different, "oblique" approach instead of going straight at the goal. She sets up a hypothetical. First she says "if Matthew died," then changes it to Matthew leaving her for another woman. In that situation, she says, she would start "planting seeds and watering the garden" of her social life and her life overall. That means making herself more eligible: feeling confident and good in her body, and feeling calm and at peace. It also means looking at her friendships. As a newly single person she would want single friends, so she would actively build friendships with people in the same stage of life, single and looking for love in their 30s or 40s. Her view is that the bigger you make your life, the more likely you are to eventually meet someone great.
For anyone who wants to get back out there after a long time alone, she suggests asking whether your life is set up for meeting someone. Do you have plenty of friendships? Do you like where you live and how you look? Do you feel confident enough to go on dates and show up as yourself? She thinks these need attention before a push to meet as many people as possible. Otherwise, when someone ghosts you or lets you down, it hits much harder because "we don't have all the other pillars in our lives to rely on."
The video ends with Matthew joking about how quickly she would be "planting seeds" around town, Audrey pointing out that in this scenario he left her, and Matthew asking viewers to comment if they want more episodes with her.
We did it, guys. We did it. We got Audrey back by popular demand. Last time I lured her into this chair under the false promise of cake.
Cake? Oh, yeah.
I've baked you a—
Oh, for—
Which some of you were quite upset by. This time I don't need to. I have been able to lure her back with love. Your love.
Holly said, "So logical. Audrey is very well spoken and it was really nice having a female's perspective on the dating scene." Arjuman says, "Audrey is adorable." I agree. Makeup Koala says, "I'm so thrilled my question was picked. I really love this video and it is entirely too short. We need more of these, maybe even a series."
Here is Audrey answering your questions. And among them, a question about how to deal with jealousy in a marriage or relationship. Our marriage? Or our marriage?
No.
Not our marriage? About our marriage? We'll see.
I heard an alarming statistic recently. Someone on our team said that only 36% of you who watch these videos are actually subscribed. So, make sure you subscribe to this channel so that every time I release a video, it just pops up for you on your home screen and you're like, "Ah, there he is. Why isn't it Audrey?"
Without further ado, this is Audrey Hussey. Boom, you're in the chair.
Get off.
No, it's going to be a smash cut. This isn't the cut we're using. It's going to be a smash cut.
Ah, now we got rid of him. Let's talk.
I'm still here.
All the Umbrellas in London says, strong name by the way, "Audrey, my partner has slept with many people before meeting me. All one-time hookups. I have only slept with one. This discrepancy makes me think that what we have isn't intimate or special to him, as he's already shared his body with so many others. Physical intimacy is super important to me, and I don't just share it with anyone. He tells me not to worry about his past and reassures me that what we have is special because I am the first woman he's committed to. But the thought pops up sometimes, and it makes me sad. Is this a bad reason to break up with someone when everything else is going great?"
Do I think you should break up with him because of who he slept with in the past? No. I don't think that's a good enough reason to break up with somebody. I don't believe somebody who has a sexual past cannot be trusted. And to varying degrees, we all have a sexual past. Obviously, some people have been with more people than others. But what's more important, I think, is whether or not you are aligned with somebody today. The way you value intimacy, connection, monogamy, making sure those values are aligned with who you both are today is far more important than looking backwards into somebody's past and what they have or haven't done.
But it does need to be said that there are other things in this question that raise a little bit of a red flag for me. Which is why there are a few elements of your question that I think are worth underlining. The first one is you did not describe him having multiple relationships. You said, "My partner has slept with many people before meeting me. All one-time hookups." The assumption being that every single one of those people were just a one-time thing.
I agree with that because he's allowed to change. We're all allowed to change and shift our value systems. But the idea that, the way it's described as all one-time hookups, is suggestive of someone who isn't able or willing to have any real intimacy with someone.
I hope this is helpful. Thank you so much for the question, All the Umbrellas in London. It's a good one.
So this one is from one of our Love Life members, Gayatri. She says, "I remember Audrey talking about her hair loss before and I relate to it a lot since puberty and even now starting my 30s. How did you not let it define you and be confident that you can show up and are worthy?"
Gayatri, thank you so much for this question. It's very, very vulnerable. Anybody who doesn't know, I've been on a bit of a journey with hair loss. When I was in my 20s, my hair was falling out and I had to do a lot of different things to try and get it to stop falling out. So I want to talk about this question. I want to answer the psychological element of it, but first I also want to give you an answer which is the answer I know I would want if I was asking a question like that, which is what can I actually do about it?
So these are some things that I did that helped me. Obviously, please go and do your own research and speak to a healthcare professional, but these are just some of the things that helped me. The first thing is I did a full blood panel and I recommend that you do this because you might be deficient in something. It could be iron, it could be vitamin D, which could be causing the hair loss. You can go to your dermatologist and you can get prescribed minoxidil, which is either topical or oral and that really, really helps with hair shed. You can also do things like PRP, scalp massages, microneedling, all of those things stimulate the hair growth as well and they're really, really good. Rosemary oil masks are really helpful. High protein diet, obviously a balanced diet as well. And also just supplements, Nutrafol is really, really good for example and it's recommended by dermatologists.
So I think depending on your budget, your time, your appetite for tackling this. I know for me I went and threw everything and the kitchen sink at it because that's just my personality. You can try some of those things and just try them one by one. Don't get overwhelmed and know that there's a lot of things that you can do to make it better.
What do you say to people who feel like they've tried everything, nothing's really worked, their hair is just something that bugs them every time they look in the mirror, it affects their confidence in dating?
I would say I really understand that emotion and that feeling and I've been through that. But let me tell you something which I hope is a pressure valve. Your hair is a feature and no one marries a feature. We marry a person. We marry a complete package with flaws and qualities and physical attributes. And when someone chooses us, they are not choosing us based on one of those features. They are choosing us based on the complete package that we represent.
So our job is to be the most compelling complete package we can possibly be. And we don't do that by obsessing over a feature we don't like. We do that by honing in and bettering and refining all of the most beautiful and amazing parts of us. So that when somebody meets us and let's say there is something about us, whether it is hair, whether it's something else, your weight, something about your personality, whatever it might be, something that maybe that person wouldn't have chosen and picked out, what we want is for this person to decide that regardless of that feature, I cannot possibly walk away from this person because they are too good, because their package that they are is too compelling to pass up.
Wow.
This one is from Teresa Sinclair on YouTube who says, "I've been hurt too many times. I don't want to date. It gives me anxiety. No one stays true to who they say they are. How can you tell if someone will be honest and true to who they say they are?"
I feel like you would do a very good job of answering this question. I'm going to tell you what I think real quick, but I'm going to pass to you after this because I actually think you're going to have something to say about this.
Is she allowed to do that?
I'm allowed to do that.
Harrison, is she allowed to do that?
Harrison said yes, so—
I submit to you, dear viewer, is she allowed to do that?
Look, the reality is that you don't know. You can never really tell whether somebody is who they say they are or pretending to be somebody. Half of the time we don't even know what we want. So, when we go into relationships and say, "I really like you. I want to be with you," we may believe that in the moment, but it doesn't mean that six months down the line we aren't incapable of changing our minds and breaking somebody else's heart. You don't know. You never fully know. But that is not a reason to shut love out and to never experience a relationship with another person.
I think the only thing we can do is we can really work on trusting ourselves that we are going to make the best decision we can, go with somebody who we believe shares our values around relationship and honesty and commitment. We need to take our time so that we're not overinvesting and ending up with our hearts broken after three weeks. And ultimately, we need to build a strong enough foundation within ourselves, which means that if somebody does change their mind, if somebody does hurt us, if somebody does turn out to be untrue or unkind, we know we'll be okay because we can never put our faith in the fact that somebody will never hurt us. We can only put our faith in the fact that we ourselves will be okay if they do. And from that place, we actually get to take risk and we actually get to put ourselves back out there because we know that we can survive anything.
So, that's what I think. But what do you think?
I suppose all I would add is that even knowing that you're strong enough to walk away if it goes wrong or if this person ends up not being who they said they were, it doesn't necessarily change the underlying cynicism that we have developed that everyone just winds up being bad. In fact, it feeds that cynicism because what we tell ourselves is, "See, sooner or later they do all end up being the same." And that's the part that we have to begin to heal.
There are strategies for protecting ourselves and there are strategies for healing our worldview when it comes to human beings or men or women or whatever our challenge is. And I want to offer a healing perspective and it's actually something Audrey helped me with recently because I was in a situation where I felt taken advantage of. It triggered a lot of past stuff for me in having been deeply taken advantage of by certain people in my life and I ended up connecting the two and my brain wanted to latch onto that feeling of everyone always ends up taking advantage or tries to in some way.
And Audrey reminded me, "It's okay for you to be a bit upset by this, but this person is very different from this person in the past. The intentions are different." And I actually think a very empowering thought is the idea that in human interactions, we, if we assume a role of leadership, we actually get to impact the people we're with. We get to be the kind of person that brings out someone's most generous nature, brings out someone's most optimistic nature, brings out someone's most respectful nature. We get to be the person who makes people better around us.
And when I think about going beyond our trauma, I always picture that beyond trauma is leadership. And leadership is what doesn't just look out for the right result with people. Leadership creates it.
Not bad.
Well, thank you. I don't want to step on the rest of your video, but can I just take an opportunity to talk about the retreat because this is—
Yes.
Directly aligned with it.
You have 40 seconds. Go.
That's too short, but I'll try.
If anyone is trying to do this right now, if you're trying to become more of a person of impact in your own life so that you can attract love or you can change the nature of the relationships that you're experiencing, feel like you command more respect in life, get more opportunities, it starts with us being able to manage our emotions, change the deeper wiring that has been governing us and our decisions our whole life, and create a new relationship with ourselves. And when we do these things, everything changes. And things that you didn't think were possible in your life will become possible, even if you've never experienced them before.
This is the work that we are going to be doing on our retreat program in Miami, Florida this year. It's happening in October on the 24th and the 25th for an immersive weekend. We have people flying from all over the world to come to this thing.
And tickets right now are selling really quickly. And the reason they are selling really quickly right now is because I just announced in some of my private circles and coaching groups that this is the last in-person retreat I'm doing for a while. So, everyone who has been saying, "One day, I want to come to your retreat," is suddenly realizing that that day needs to be today.
So, if you want to come and experience these changes, we have less than 50 tickets available for the retreat now. You can book a call with my man Billy Jennings, who is one of my favorite people on this earth. You will love the call with him, even if you don't end up coming to the retreat. It will provide you clarity, he's amazing energy, you'll finish better than you started. I'll leave a link below, MHRetreat.com. Ask any questions you have, we would love to see you there. And if you do want to be there, it's better to act sooner than later because this one is going to be a big one. So, next question.
This one is from anonymous, but interesting question. They say, "What would you say are the five things you love the most about Matthew? Can you rank them one to five?" And this person said, "Could you give as much detail as possible?" That's actually a really interesting question.
I didn't see that question when I was looking through the thread.
I think it was quite far down. You need to scroll. I think it was near the bottom.
You couldn't possibly do this question justice in the time we have today.
We could try.
Okay, fine. It was me. Okay? I just wanted to hear that you love me today. Is that a crime?
I'll tell you one of the things I love the most about you.
Yeah, could you give as much detail as possible?
Cupcake Queen says, "What are your thoughts on late bloomers? I have a friend in her 20s who hasn't had her first kiss, and she feels really pathetic because she's always wanted love, knows the kind of guy she wants, but hasn't had any luck with dating, probably due to very sheltered circumstances. What advice would you share so that she is less afraid to put herself out there and stop feeling pathetic and behind?"
You must give yourself grace because your circumstances have been a huge factor here. If you have lived a sheltered life, if you have not had the opportunity or the kind of exposure to things that has led to you being able to have this experience, and that's not really your fault. So, first of all, giving yourself grace and compassion for the fact that the reason you are where you are today, having not had a kiss in your mid-20s, is because of those circumstances, because of that lack of exposure.
I also want to say something, which is no one knows that about you. You're not walking around branded "never been kissed." People only know this fact if you choose to share it with them. And guess what? People are not entitled to know your sexual non-history any more than they're entitled to know your sexual history. You don't owe people any information about yourself, in fact. They are not entitled to know what kind of medication you're on. They are not entitled to know what you've been through in your life, what you haven't experienced. All of this stuff is actually as personal as you wish to keep it.
So, no one needs to know that you haven't had a kiss yet. And guess what? The moment you have a kiss that will no longer be true. You'll suddenly be someone who has kissed someone. So, it's not a big deal. I think it's only as much of a big deal as you make it in your own head. And I would encourage you to remember that people don't know what you don't tell them. And even though for you, this feels like a massive, massive thing, most people in this life have no idea that this is the case. And so, you don't need to carry it as this massive burden. You just need to make peace with it within yourself and say, "So far in my
Life, I've not had this experience, but I'm excited to try this. I'm excited to be intimate with someone. I'm excited to kiss someone. I'm excited to do all these things. And then go out in the world and make those things happen on your terms in a way that you're comfortable with.
Marlene Boise says, "What is something you both do consistently to make your marriage last, and what is one thing you choose to accept about your partner as opposed to trying to alter?"
Can I give the answer as to what we do to make our marriage last?
Yeah, go on.
When one of us says something about one of our needs not getting met or something that's affecting us, we don't just skate past it. It's like a little alarm, and we don't hit snooze on that alarm. We actually will do something about it.
Can you give an example?
You recently said that you were craving time together, and you were craving actual dates together, because we get lots of time together. But you said, "I'm craving us actually going out and having a date night." And that was instantly—I don't mean alarm bell in any scary way, but it's like a little alarm clock going off and being like, "Oh, you should pay attention to this because you felt the need to say it out loud. I should pay attention to this."
Because, by the way, when someone says something out loud, it's not the first time they've had that thought. They've been feeling it. So it's like the alarm just got a little louder if they spoke it. And I ended up going and Googling French things to do in LA, because Audrey's French, if you didn't know. And I know that it means a lot to you to connect with your culture.
So then I found serendipitously that Bastille Day was around the corner and that there was a whole celebration that was taking place downtown. And we had crepes, and it was just a beautiful night. And that was instant: you said it, we did something about it. And I know you're the same. If I say something, you pay attention. And I can set my watch to you having done something about it in the next few days or week.
That's a really good one. That's true.
What's something you've accepted about me?
I was going to ask you that.
What have you chosen to accept as opposed to trying to alter?
Well, I feel like a real... after this lovely thing you said, if I say anything bad. I hope I can say this on camera.
Because of things you've been through in your life, you like to hold on tight and control situations sometimes. You like to feel in control of situations, and sometimes you will just try and control things. And I think that's something that I... I know it makes you feel safe to do that.
I'm not doing anything. So, you've accepted this.
Yeah, sometimes you will try and control things that you don't need to try and control because I've got it, but you're like—
Give me an example.
Well, you'll be like, "Did you do this? Did you book that?" You'll double-check that I've done things, or if I try and organize something, you'll kind of swoop in and try and do it instead of me. But I accept that because I know it makes you feel safe. And so it's okay that you do that.
Okay. Sweet.
Next question.
Abar says, "My questions are mostly around where to find eligible singles who actually want to date and how to shake off the rust when you've been on your own for a while."
Okay, so for the first part of the question, there's no zip code or specific area where eligible people hang out, but there are definitely many, many things that you can do to come into contact with more eligible people. We talk about this at great, great length on Dating With Results, which is free, by the way. It's a training that we created, and I think over a million people have actually watched it at this point. So you can check it out if you haven't done so already. It'll give you a lot of insights on that part of the question.
And when it comes to the second part of the question, how to shake off the rust when you've been on your own for a while, I know the person asking this question wants to know very practical things they can do today to meet people. So, should I download an app? Should I speak to people? Should I do this? How do I get back out there in the most productive way to increase my chances of meeting someone?
And I want to offer you a different way of looking at it, which is, how do I achieve my goal of meeting someone obliquely? Downloading the app and doing all of that, that's a very direct way of trying to tackle this goal of meeting somebody. But I actually think that if Matthew died and I was finding myself single again tomorrow, this is what I would do.
Okay. Okay, fine. Not died. If he left me for another woman and just left me completely on my own, high and dry, for this other woman that he fell in love with, I personally would start planting seeds and watering the garden of my social life and of my life. So I would basically try and do things to make myself more eligible.
I would make sure I feel confident, I feel good in my body, I feel calm and peaceful in my mind, that I'm feeling okay and comfortable about the fact that my husband just left me for another woman. I would also look at my friendships and say, "Do I have any single friends?" Because I'm now a single person, so I need single friends. And I would try and actively create more friendships with people who are in the same life phase as me, which is single and looking for love in their 30s or 40s or whatever it might be.
The more seeds you plant, the more you water the garden, the bigger you make your life, the more likely you are to eventually meet someone awesome. To me, if you are in a place where you are going, "I want to get back out there, but I've been on my own for a long time," I would look at your life and say, "Is my life geared towards meeting somebody? Do I feel abundant in friendships? Do I like where I live? Do I like how I look? Do I feel confident enough to go on dates and feel like I can actually show up as my authentic self?"
And all of those things, I think, need to be addressed first before going, "I need to go out and meet people," because otherwise, if you're going out and you're trying to meet as many people as possible, when somebody turns around and lets you down or ghosts us or whatever it might be, we end up taking that so hard because we don't have all the other pillars in our lives to rely on.
How do you feel about you planting your little seeds all over town?
You don't get a say because you left me for another woman.
Didn't happen.
In this scenario, you're with another woman.
Good to know how quickly you'd be stuffing your little seeds in every crevice.
Well, there it is. Another video with Audrey. Let us know what you thought, and if you want more of these, leave a comment below. And thank you to all of you for your wonderful questions.
If you haven't booked a phone call with Billy yet to talk about the retreat, do that while he's got space in his diary because it is filling up fast. mhretreat.com is the link. And if you want to see the last video I did with Audrey, you can watch it here.
That's not even—you're not even pointing in the right direction.
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